Moreover, our typical view of great leaders is that they are bold and decisive, like Teddy Roosevelt or Vince Lombardi. This black-and-white approach to thinking may be a successful strategy, especially in flight - or - fight situations.
- However, many noted military leaders were skill that “thinking gray” on the battlefield.
- Napoleon, Washington and Rommel all knew the value of suspending judgment about many important matters until the last possible moment.
- Forming opinions before it is absolutely necessary closes the mind to new information that becomes available later.
Just as you can think gray without ever needing to reach a conclusion, you can also listen gray without ever needing to deliver a response. Active listening, with relevant and probing questions, can help the speaker realized that they have to be able to support their arguments with data. The top business leaders never just take comments at face value. Rather, they ask, “Who is saying what to whom? Is this communicating the opinions of two or 200?”
The best advice is that you don’t have to make up your mind about a persons credibility until it’s absolutely necessary. Many failed leaders have been taken in by glib, highly educated idiots all the while dismissing deep thinkers who found it difficult to put their thoughts into words.
It doesn’t take a lot of historical research to realize that numerous leaders have been dethroned by their well-intentioned experts.
A good business example is the story about a graphic design firm that insisted that the typeface in a brochure had to be small to preserve the “artistic integrity” of the end product.
- The client, however, wanted to use large typeface because it’s elderly customers couldn’t read the fine print.
- The designers were more interested in impressing their colleagues and winning awards than communicating their client’s message effectively.
An expert must be either a “deep specialist,” or a “deep generalist.” The leader’s role is to integrate the advice of several experts into a coherent course of action.
Bill Laverly, President of W.J. Laverly Real Estate said, “People seem to expect leaders to know everything about everything all the time. Resisting the urge to give your opinion until you know what you’re talking about is a very valuable trait for anyone who expects to be a leader on a long-term basis.”
When it comes to decision-making, the vast majority of us have been brought up with a clean desk mentality. “Never put off to tomorrow a decision you can make today.” Organizational leaders understand the value of this conventional wisdom but may gain advantage by some procrastination on their most important decisions.
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